Early this year, Desiree (my 10 year old) literally begged me to permit her to take Netball as a CCA. I was hesitant initially given her intensive swimming lessons at the Chinese Swmming Club. Eventually, I agreed but on the condition that she does not neglect her studies. She kept to her side of the bargain. Unfortunately, she will be opting out of the sport end of this year. While I am pleased with the decision given the desire for her to focus on swimming, I am disturbed by the basis for the withdrawal. No, she is still interested in Netball.
I thought it could be the strenuous training since Netball is considered one of the principal sports of the school. Then again, I have seen the demanding training schedule at the swimming club and she has managed relativey well. Recently, I found out that the Netball coach was the cause for her decision. She has been curt in her comments, often giving the students the 'tough' treatments and totally uncaring in her approach.
Competitive sports are never easy especially for kids. The discipline and tenacity required to excel is truly overwhelming. Toughening the kids need not mean harsh language and lack of care. If not managed appropriately, the drive for excellence will eradicate the greater call for educators - care for and holistic development of students. The trainings at the swimming club have always been tough yet not conducted at the expense of the children's relationship with their coaches. Clearly, the school needs to assess its strategy and approach when working with external service providers who can sometimes contradict the school's value and in Desiree's instant, killed a potential talent in the field.*Sigh*
