This is the approach we take for
Constant Difference questions. In short, the difference between the two people is the same before and after the change. Therefore, the difference in units, before and after, must also be the same. Since the difference in ratio, in the end, is only 1unit (4-3) we change the ratio to 6:4. Now the difference is 2 units.
You can find more explanation and questions in Chapter 2.6 of your +
hinkingMath@onsponge.com book. If you want Constant Difference with whole numbers and ratios, you can refer to Chapter 1.4 and 3.5 respectively.